Gary D. Parks
Forever Our Hero"
of us are fortunate enough in our lives to know one of those special
people who is truly caring and considerate, one who derives pleasure
by catering to the wants and needs of others, and whose happiness
is equal only to the happiness of his loved ones. Such is the
soul of Gary D. Parks, a man whose charismatic nature, noble ways,
and limitless love deeply touched the hearts of all who knew him.
Gary was born on August 5, 1955, to George Jr.
and Joan Parks at McConnell Air Force Base in Wichita, Kansas.
In 1957, the family moved to Emporia, Kansas where Gary grew up
closely following the U.S. space program. His older brother Terry
remembers a particular historic event that took place when Gary
was 13 years old. During a family outing to a cabin at a rural
lake, a neighbor yelled for them to come and see what was on television.
The two brothers rushed over just in time to watch Neil Armstrong
take the first exciting step onto the moon.
Following his graduation from Emporia High School,
Gary embarked on a highly successful career in restaurant and
casino management. Beginning in Dallas, Texas, his work spanned
two decades and eventually took him to Los Angeles, then finally
to Fresno, California. His sister Kathy recalls, "Gary was
a very popular boss. He had the rare ability to combine professionalism
with a sincere humanity and compassion. His friendliness, charm
and skill commanded loyalty and respect, and made him a valuable
asset to all his employers."
Gary read mystery novels and enjoyed music, cinema
and art. He was an avid collector of Lalique crystal and owned
a treasured collection. He possessed a contagious laugh, a wonderful
sense of humor, and a passion for novelty and whimsy.
His neighbors, especially children, thought very
highly of Gary. Each Christmas he transformed his house and yard
into a spectacle of lights and displays, attracting visitors from
miles around. Throughout the rest of the year, kids could always
count on him to buy whatever they were selling door-to-door, just
because it made them happy.
Gary's mother Joan recalls, "Gary was just
so considerate ... and everyone who met him always commented to
me on his beautiful blue eyes! I'm proud to have been his mother
and his friend."
Gary lost his valiant battle with AIDS three weeks
before his 43rd birthday. His death devastated those he left behind.
In addition to his mother Joan, sister Kathy, and brother Terry,
they include his grandmother Laura, his companion Leon, and his
cats, George and Emily. His father George and grandmother Della
Jacques preceded him in death by only a few months.
Gary also left behind friends and extended family
from coast to coast, many of whom loved him as a brother or son.
Our lives were immeasurably enriched by his presence. He is forever
our hero. We rejoice in knowing that his benevolent spirit is
Beneath My Wings
Did you ever know that you're my hero
You're everything I wish I could be
I can fly higher than an eagle
For you are the wind beneath my wings.
Fly, fly, fly away You let me fly so high
Thank you, thank you Thank God for you
The wind beneath my wings.