Robert Arno Peterson
1943 - 2005
“Bob, Straight To Heaven”
“Bob, Above The Weather”
Peterson was the perpetual-motion volunteer, whether it was entertaining
Alzheimer's patients or getting raccoons out of a neighbor's chimney.
The lifelong Arvada, Colorado bachelor, who died of cancer at
age 62, devoted his life to volunteering.
A quiet, reserved, sturdy man, he lived simply and rarely thought
of himself. He raised vegetables rather than flowers because "corn
was more useful than flowers." He was like one of those "Norwegian
bachelor farmers" from mythical Lake Wobegon. But that all
changed when Bob Peterson met Susan Gibson on his daily visits
to Spring Ridge nursing facility in Edgewater, where his mother,
Mary Peterson, lived.
The two started dating, and instead of going out to eat four
times a year, Bob was going out four times a week. They had their
first date at Starbucks, and Bob, predictably, had plain coffee
— nothing fancy.
After that, it was plays, movies, concerts and dinners. Sometimes
he cooked for Susan — liver and onions or meat loaf. But
he also liked to make Italian wedding cookies.
"He was my best friend and companion," said Susan.
Bob showered her with gifts — flowers, chocolates, stuffed
animals, even a crock pot — though "I'm lukewarm on
cooking," she said.
Peterson worked for 30 years as an administrative clerk at Rocky
Flats, but he was already in high volunteer mode before retiring
at age 50.
He watched over his father, Arno Peterson, until his death in
1991 and visited his mother several days a week until his own
His volunteering took him to St. Anne's Catholic Church. He also
was an usher at the Arvada Center, a volunteer aide at Lutheran
Medical Center in Wheat Ridge and a volunteer at the Arvada Senior
Center and other organizations.
He was known in his neighborhood for fixing, mowing and solving
He fed the skunk, deer and fox that showed up in his yard, participated
in parties at senior centers and did magic tricks at elementary
schools and for birthday parties.
He had to be busy, he loved people, and he figured he'd been
given a lot of things in life; he was just a giver.
Robert Arno Peterson was born March 31, 1943, in Detroit, and
came to Colorado with his parents when he was a child. The family
moved to Colorado because he and his younger brother had asthma.
He is survived by brother David of Prairie Village, Kansas, and
brother Eric of Tucson, Arizona, and three nieces and one nephew.
He was preceded in death by his brother, Dan.
Bob Peterson, Straight to Heaven.